A backyard barbeque is the perfect place to tackle life's big questions: Is the chicken done? Does the band need a new tune? Is this the right time to have a baby? Rebecca Gilman's fresh and moving new play takes an intimate look at modern families, friendships and the ins and outs of love. The Crowd You’re In With was chosen for the 2007 Eugene O'Neill Playwrights Conference and premiered at the Magic Theatre in San Francisco in 2007.